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Have witnessed life assemble too many to break up is away from suit , have seen the sad comedy of a lot of relevant marriage families, one of my friend says very as, actually, many persons are to be in it to just know the 5 tastes in which , and have gone to this time, a little intestines regrets is green, but is also of no help.
The marriage of compatriots at the most time, is quilt a kind of public opinion, or environmental inertia makes Ran. Get married to stand field, it is how many years, amount is traditional as acting continuity comes down , relative to value tradition especially we, marry wife raw son , add perfume to extend fiery idea , is nearly deep-rooted.
Writer likes to use arouse enthusiasm words describe painstakingly " what immortal love ", regardless of domestic or foreign countries, do not be not as good as this, from " European Luo Mi Ou and Zhu Li Ye ", go to the Chinese sad beautiful love " Liang Shan Bo and wish Britain Taiwan", what give person is that a kind of is deep-rooted to imprint on the mind. Pursue beautiful feelings, enjoyment has the life of love , is a matter of doing all the life.
But life has no so many wind colored snow monthes. When you face firewood rice oil salt time, when you the time of the broken lock faced to live, have had no is so many and romantic, more can let you grab is mad. Life has let us vexed reason, life also has to let us ridicule the reason that not come out. It is romantic as having , have in is passionately in love mad vindication, can have nothing left along with time , finally, what leave is the life of old appearance and 5 tastes only.
Two persons know each other from acquaintance arrive appearance love , so that walk finally hand in hand into the hall of marriage hall, after nominal view, how many persons can accomplish really " hold the hand of son, bring old to it ". So so, I am for the respect of the silver wedding of golden wedding that people express pretty. Now, talk with a sociology person friend and is current to divorce the problem with high rate. She asks that I how to see that I reply her: Divorce rate says high from the layer surface of sociology, have at least shown people the progress of ideology, those traditional idea of " error does not also want to gather together " has divided Beng is away from Xi, this is very good. Certainly , there are the society of many factors and diversifications in divorce rate behind, it is reasonable that people accept the channel of thing and message, and it is more convenient that people deliver the way of friend, at the same time because of the society of commercialization, is filled with huge thing to want that etc. all these are the divorce origin cause of formations with high rate.
No matter from which kind of meaning, say that marriage is a matter of treat seriously. I have written a short essay " marriage is a pair of shoes " suit is not suitable , only foot is known. Marriage signifies responsibility , also signifies to undertake , when I look , it is long to live , it is romantic to grind everything and passion, leave is stark naked to face life, it does not be opened that you hide. That is just a trial endurance , tests perseverance, trial the ability of bearing long game. So, there will be contradiction, there will be quarrel, it will have to part , all these are normal.
Again many love also no life is true as
December 25,2007
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