About the thought of life

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Say truth , do not want to write this subject formerly, because one talks about the person of " life " easily , always gives person a kind of relatively strange feeling: First health of self has no big problem( at least now), it is second, on body, also have no incompleteness and 3th , do not weary for life. Based on above-mentioned reason, give directions for life, some do not estimate own ability force. But matter has cause , I in a QQ crowd, a crowd friends have written a article to paste in crowd, after I have seen , having discussed one for him and viewpoint and some sayings of his article take off , dialogue is not many , is also the reason that says each , can not all persuade who certainly, I have also forgotten this matter very quickly. Though, network is a open environment , but should say in what environment that being in person as me have a basic yardstick. Who expects , yesterday I when the ends of the world have seen me this online friend that the article that I have discussed with him , what let me surprised more is that he has also pasted that dialogue on QQ between us unexpectedly. Have no shameful thing formerly , but I do not like this kind of way.

But I will appreciate this online friend

In one day of December of cold Beijing, a female white collar jumps , jump down from 24 floor, using this kind of way have finished own life. In view of the respect for involved party, I do not want to say her name. I have seen conscientiously " the rich guest of her unique life " , say truth, I feel to shake very much , also feel to regret very much. As if my dialogue with that online friend I description so, the woman that I go to for this one into extremity expresses respect , is in the time that lasts a many monthes , if it is hers calm, is weak to see life and death. However, I also feel have is a lot of and helpless and regret, if be those in the time that lasts a many monthes to have seen the people of her rich guest, can adopt some positive methods , may persuade that desperate and broken heart to stay perhaps.

Is exceptionally material today , when a lot of ideas of

Come out between feelings are what things, straight religion person life and death appearance allow. This is a lot of for one to chant to sing the verse of times, also let people when relapse in chant to sing , produce the thought of the flavour of 100 shapes, the helplessness of 100 shapes and 100 shapes.

I feel in the back of this tragedy, really, having a lot need our thing that thinks deeply conscientiously. She has gone , has selected a kind of extreme way , has finished own pattern for time, but she reserves sadness and pain and has given , love her, pain her kinsfolks, from this, say that her choice is selfish.

Facing the once on feelings, it is sharp to change , people possible choice very multi-party type, but see with this kind of intense way, from individual that "involved party" has realized " perfect self", but this process is filled with cruelty and is extreme. , involved party " perfume eliminates jade Yun " can not stop that copy of love that cannot pray for , and change a angle to think deeply , for the such a selfish and lack "spouse" of conscience and morality and justice go " Xun feelings " is worth for? , such way, have helped a pair of that just, though they possibility bears " public opinion and morality and justice" saliva, however, this again can how to? From the angle of economy, say that resist a pair of dirty wild mandarin duck with a fresh life, that is the matter that stroke does not come to absolutely.

I dare say , this one for "love" Xun the person of feelings, very quickly, will be forgotten by people. Regardless of the saliva that has how many "morality and justice"s and "justice"s , can not stop the sharp edge of time , it meeting very quickly cut flat people mind is sorrowful and angry, life is continued as before.

Two years are former, the boy of 16 years old of a trouble leukaemia in the hospital of Beijing forever have gone , his rich guest now I am still linking , can still open still, people are leaving a message as before. The name of the boy rich guest of this sunshine is called " forever son You ", the person of his sunshine that is sufficient to let us have feels shake and have no speech so as as, he is for the understanding of life and is thorough, he is for optimistic and reasonable, his those healthy and happy writings of life and death , the rich guest that lets me visit him each time time, have a kind of is heartfelt to be moved.

Life is that we arrive the difficulty of achievement and growth of father shrewd mother blood and a kind of form on this world, everything may be brief. However, alive is a relatively serious subject really. Why is living, how is living, always is people saliva happy road.

I pretty do not approve to use a kind of extreme way , finish own life. Because any a life signifies power and responsibility. For adult, life belongs to self, also belong to kinsfolk with society, certainly, lie in your self for the power of life choice, may you select extremity , can however bring what to you extremely? Are you a still something else of " chastity memorial archway "? Only emphasis or is the power of having upholded self , and the responsibility for life is this and partially relative to ignore , lacks sense of responsibility obviously.

Write that here, I even do not think to condemn which make a pair of this tragedy men and women, their meeting quilt the way condemnation of this tragedy that producer resists with intense life and curse all the life? Meeting?

Treasure life , is earnest

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