About marriage
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Yesterday evening on net seeing make reduction I Cheng a curtain of eye knot tongue, the sport channel of CCTV is direct broadcast the news briefing meeting of special subject of one concerning the Olympic Games, Zhang Bin upholds , meeting just begins , after a woman intrudes upon suddenly, she self introduction, is< xml:namespace prefix=st1 ns="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags">< personname w:st=on productid=寮犳枌鐨?Zhang< personname/>Wife, the host of Beijing television station recklessly crape myrtle, she has said on Taiwan that lets have the words with frightened person in 3 minutes, general idea is her exposure Mr. De Fu Zhang Bin , is also a colored heart big radish, because of him when outside and other woman the relation with illegitimate maintenance. This is the rare matter on Chinese news history, it is a that the news briefing meeting of a dignified national television station has sung unexpectedly.
In 2007, the matter that is worth for us to aftertaste is too many really. Week tiger returns in mist mountain, have made such bandit here unexpectedly Yi the matter thought. Say truth, for recklessly the extreme behavior of crape myrtle I can not agree really. According to her original words, is , learn before two hours that Zhang Bin and other woman have illegitimate relation. The so a person who has gotten higher education , a little medium person who has fame , need while facing such matter as " this strong bosom intense "? Strong bosom is intense, you should also not select the public, the media of country, since using such stage, what "destruction of good and bad alike" or fish dead net breaks.
Now, we do not go to discuss that who of this matter has non who, the private life of involved party should get respect, but must describe is , recklessly crape myrtle this kind of disregarding everything, it is the way of a kind of destruction really. What is ridiculous is that network goes up have person unexpectedly to think recklessly crape myrtle has demeanour cloud cloud very much. This is a matter that the woman of demeanour does? If this does not sum aftermath, so, it is leather to tear broken surface? The key of problem does not lie in these , but is to lie in that who allows you to tremble in the scene of the news briefing meeting of national television station and the private life of own to fall to come out , this is to want bad smell to pour Zhang Bin only, still a kind of joint is bad?
Marriage is a kind of contract, the requirement with basic contract is both sides should wait to observe a kind of basic criterion strictly. However, modern society, people do not value this contract, combination and separate, marriage outside feelings, raise little honey to regard as usual practice , this can say is people a kind of change of idea, the person claimed has will each can not winner Mian, say so, have no necessity see the contract of marriage is so sacred, so, cannot intrude. Who knows that love is exclusive, however, marriage afterwards, men and women really can of each other appearance guard , loyalty a lifetime? Recklessly the very crape myrtle and Zhang Bin are also not to match , like is deep, also not use to hate so cut. It is the one time that one does not sum the behavior of aftermath , is to lose reasonable madness, if say that can reach what purpose that, it is also that all have played together. Why will do marriage defeat as this two, is all to injure? This still has what love, have love is also false to let one tremble with fear.
Speaking one again occur when the true story of my side, I Yin go the full name of involved party. I have a friend, is showy very much at the time that he marries , wife is the functionary of the airport of civil aviation, person is very beautiful. After marrying , the feelings of two persons is very good allegedly, very some help each other when both are in humble circumstances , live to ripe old age meaning. However, suddenly one day, my friend, because have no time feelings midway goes home , when the time that he opens Fang Men , he has seen him most do not want everything seen , wife and additionally a man have lain when is a. His what has not said that brings the door of bedroom , self sits on the sofa in hall, he counts a smoke, that smoke has not been taken out yet, that man and wife that carries on a clandestine love affair go down on knees in pairs when in front of he , beg him to forgive. His what has not said , tells merely that they do not go , everybody does not go. Then, self has opened computer, fast have hit a divorce agreement. He tells his wife only: " your thing belongs to you, your other whats can't also bring , sign. " he has no is any and too drastic , such is away from marry , that woman is nearly that net body makes household. Afterwards at the time that we have wine one time , he tells me his true opinion at that time, all man most can not tolerate is first go up many green hat, so, when he sees this curtain, he wants to hold the knife result of kitchen really they. But it is reasonable to tell him: This is a business that not calculated , kill a person to pay with one's life this does not say , still bring to some of families the pain that not gone to throughout life , and is also not a person that accomplishes nothing by oneself, commit more not therefore lose career, lose own wealth. He tells me, is him to look at the time that wife signs name on divorce agreement, he has unexpectedly a kind of have taken off the feeling of a dirty clothing seemingly.
Have said this two matters, I feel that have still may than sex. When I look , can not use those you die I alive way, person need to reserve , have room, needn't bitter bitter appearance force , do you do not leave ground for retreat?
Who can have the demeanour of Shakespeare " the little ship when love quilt stormy waves overturns , leting us friendly say good-bye. " though this is the language of poet, minimum can not also tear broken surface skin, have no bottom line. Is necessary two defeats all wound? It is to admire the calmness of my elder brothers very much that I fall and " ruthless ".
Can error error, can't you be gentle
< chsdate w:st=on year=2007 month=12 day=29 islunardate=False isrocdate=False>December 29,2007< chsdate/>Saturday
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